Devid Richo
How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The ...
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Avtor «Emocional'nyh triggerov» Devid Richo predlagaet svezhij vzglyad na lyubov' i otnosheniya — vzglyad, kotoryj fokusiruetsya ne na poiske ideal'noj pary, a na tom, chtoby samomu stat' bolee lyubyashchim i ponimayushchim chelovekom. Opirayas' na buddijskuyu koncepciyu osoznannosti, avtor issleduet 5 priznakov vzrosloj lyubvi i togo, kak oni igrayut klyuchevuyu rol' v nashih otnosheniyah na protyazhenii vsej zhizni: 1. Prisutstvie v nastoyashchem: nablyudenie, slushanie i otslezhivanie vsekh chuvstv, proyavlyayushchihsya v nashih otnosheniyah. 2. Prinyatie sebya i drugih. 3. Ponimanie svoih i chuzhih vozmozhnostej, zhelanij i osobennostej. 4. Oshchushchenie privyazannosti, proyavlyayushcheesya cherez ob'yatiya i prikosnoveniya. 5. Osoznanie, chto nel'zya vzyat' zhizn' i lyubov' pod kontrol', a nuzhno prinimat' ih s ekstazom i bol'yu, kotorye oni nesut v sebe. Pyat' prostyh tezisov obrazuyut osnovu zreloj lyubvi. Oni pomogayut nam otojti ot osuzhdeniya, straha i viny i zanyat' vzrosluyu poziciyu v otnosheniyah.
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